Posted 4 years ago
I have been with my husband for 4 years, we had our civil partnership 2 years ago. I know now that he is bulimic and I am struggling. I feel that I have to do whatever he wants, if I challenge what he says, he twists things around so that I end up doing what I didn't want to do. I feel as if I don't have a choice, that I have to do it because I don't know what he'll do to himself if I don't. He always has an answer, he disregards any suggestions that I make and he never wants to go out anymore and I don't want to leave him as I feel that it's not safe he's very vulnerable. he has had 2 sessions in an eating disorder unit and some follow up support but it hasn't been much use on the day to day and now I feel as if its all up to me. I just want to shut the door and walk away.