Posted 4 months ago
Hi, I hope that things are taking a more positive turn, it is as you say about taking one day at a time, I had days when it all seemed behind us, she would eat and be compliant and then other days when we were thrown back into the maelstrom of tense emotions. But when she had decided to restore the progress was slow and tortoise like but it was positive(all be it at a painstakingly slow pace).. Advice on re feeding at home; be clear, set timetables, what you are expecting her to eat and when, do not allow any changes as she may try to change the menu or take slightly smaller portions. Agree the timetable with her maybe the day before. Try to meet your timetable as she will begin to feel anxious as the mealtime nears so if it is delayed her anxiety will increase. Do your best to include all of the food groups. Accompany her after the meal, maybe play a game of cards watch a film something to try to distract her ED thoughts from causing her distress, as her anxiety will be high after she ahs eaten. Try to hide the scales even get rid of them if you can. Hope that helps